She’s coming again.
who is this She that’s coming again? let me explain. these last few winter months, i’ve been reviewing my year of exuberant HIGHS and dark LOWS.
can you really trust other women?
i had dinner a while ago with two of my girlfriends at a sumptuous French bistro by the bay in San Francisco. these women are both stunningly beautiful, smart as whips and entrepreneurial wizards. one’s married to a gorgeous surgeon at the best hospital in SF, is about to give birth to her first baby …
how you O = how you live
in this vein of how you do one thing is how you do anything … … if someone observed you making love or in orgasm, what would they infer for how you lead your life? by O, orgasm i mean, yes, sexual arousal and sensual expansion, but i also mean: your pleasure, your bliss, your …
all parents love their children (no exceptions)
each year as the leaves turn orange and brown around the edges and the nip of cold sets in in the air, I start to have dreams of my father. after several nights in a row of these home-comings, i remember that the anniversary of his death, the day of the dead, is coming close. …
you are walking asleep
have you ever read an article or poem that rings so true you feel like you could have written it? and that is so good you wish you did write it? this one is all that for me and so i share it with you. it’s The Call, by Oriah Mountain Dreamer.
i don’t care how much money you make
in case your week could use a shot of truth, here’s one straight-up, The Invitation, an otherworldly one from Oriah Mountain Dreamer.
an unlikely tool to wrangle your guilt
you don’t have to be a working mother (like me) to feel guilt. for me, guilt appears when i’m at my desk (and not with my little one). and for me, guilt appears when i’m with my little one and feel i’m not working hard enough, earning more or serving my clients better. maybe yours …
throw jealousy a party
a couple months ago, i was invited by Your Tango to create a series of videos along with John Gray (the Mars/Venus guy) and some other great minds/hearts in the relationship sphere and i’d love to share a hot one with you today … it’s on jealousy. jealousy’s a hard one. some say THE hardest …
now is the time (thoughts from dead, naked + crazy word-slingers)
NOW IS THE TIME Now is the time to knowThat all you do is sacred.
The Happy Woman Quotient
(this article was first published in New York Spirit Magazine (October/November 2007) in my then column titled, Enlightened Sex in the City) since i write this grandly titled column, Enlightened Sex in the City, i figure it couldn’t hurt to start by trying to pin down this slippery eel, “enlightenment.” the term for me is …