blog (aka wisdom bombs)
here's where i drop 'em like it's hot, from my Feminine Genius to yours.

throw jealousy a party

a couple months ago, i was invited by Your Tango to create a series of videos along with John Gray (the Mars/Venus guy) and some other great minds/hearts in the relationship sphere and i'd love to share a hot one with you today … it's on jealousy.

jealousy's a hard one.  some say THE hardest one.

i say it can be a blessing.  i say, throw your jealousy a party.

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The Happy Woman Quotient

(this article was first published in New York Spirit Magazine (October/November 2007) in my then column titled, Enlightened Sex in the City)

since i write this grandly titled column, Enlightened Sex in the City, i figure it couldn’t hurt to start by trying to pin down this slippery eel, “enlightenment.”  the term for me is a bit like “carbs,” which includes equally a piece of Wonder Bread or a fresh peach, two very different animals indeed.  as i see it, on one hand, enlightenment is a realization of one’s Self with a capital “S”, being awake to one’s nature, or an abiding realization of what does not die when mind and body does.  

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of Lady Parts and rutabagas

i'm still basking in the after-glow of the second and final retreat of my 6-month mentorship program, Woman: The Embodiment Experience.

recently we gathered in a private retreat house in wine country.  we learned radical life tools for us feminine beings.  we ate high-vibe private-chef crafted food. soaked our bodies in the cool salt water pool and the hot hot tub.  tamed Inner Demons.  became Wild Things.  got comfortable with the Dark.  celebrated the Light.  and dropped into the most profoundly intimate and loving space i've ever witnessed 10 women co-creating.

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